Three Words: Nature Versus Nurture
Please remember the nature vs. nurture debates from your schooling. Not all behaviours are caused by bad parenting. All children have different temperaments and different ways of reacting to new situations (which I never FULLY understood until I had my own temperamental, crazy children). Please be patient and try not to judge our parenting styles. I can only hope that you will love my child even when he acts unlovable.